When a lady gets into a NSA relationship with a married man, there are some rules to follow. Although in most cases, they don't know the fact that the man is already married. They still have to face it. Most of these relationships happen between young college ladies who are looking for someone to support them through college life without necessarily committing to them. On the other hand men in these relationships are not available but they are looking for fun.
What happens then when the lady starts to fall in love with these married men? This has happened rather many times. And it is often associated with the way of how these men compensating the ladies in terms of support. The ladies are led on to a trap that has left many hearts broken and totally wrecked emotionally.
Do not always go for someone who you can easily fall for. This is one of the major rules even in the hookup game. Ladies may stay away from those that they tend be overly attracted to in order to keep away emotions. These are men who would easily get into their pants and hearts all at the same time. And before they know it they are in love with a stranger.
The other rule is to stay open, see other men to prevent getting overly dependent on that one guy. This will also help to increase the chances of meeting other men who might be single and looking to settle down for a serious relationship. If you are not ready, make it clear and left for the next who is just for NSA fun.
Avoid date nights and other couple related activities like movie nights. You have to keep in mind that you are single but he is not, and so instead, take good care of yourself and avoid instances that may lead to spending too much time together like dinner dates and events that would make you feel close to him.
Your conversation should be as casual as possible. It might be tempting to want to know about his private life, about his kids his job and wife but this might turn the conversation to more intimate matters. Since you are not his girlfriend avoid anything that will involve emotions like caring too much about his whereabouts.
The whole idea of a no strings attached arrangements is to have fun, therefore explore all your sexual fantasies and do not shy to make requests to your sex buddy. This is the hefty reward of not caring or minding what the other person is going to think or say about you. Let yourself go and enjoy the fling while it lasts.
As a lady you should always take care of yourself health wise. Ensure that you use protection while having sex to avoid pregnancies and infections such as STIs. In many cases pregnancies have ended up being the biggest spoilers of no strings attached relationships.
Avoid being too needy both for his attention and for his support. This will reduce the chances of him feeling possessive over you and you will also be able to go and look after yourself even after the arrangement is over.
